Qualities of a Silent Leader

I’ve heard it said that leaders require followers – a concept that we’re probably all familiar with. Nobody really likes to think of themselves as a “follower”, but in reality, we’ve all played that role at some point in our lives. While the traditional idea of leadership may make you think of someone in a position of power, it’s important to remember that leadership isn’t always about titles or authority. In fact, some of the most effective leaders lead by example, quietly and without attention. These are silent leaders, and they play a critical role in creating a positive and productive rehearsal environment.

So, what are the qualities that define a silent leader? For one, they are excellent role models. They don’t just talk the talk, they walk the walk. They are always willing to lend a hand and go the extra mile, setting an example for others to follow. Whether it’s knowing their music and drill, showing up on time, or giving their all during rehearsals and performances, silent leaders inspire others to do the same.

Another important quality of a silent leader is their investment. Not only are these people at rehearsal every day on time and ready to go, but they are also fully engaged and mentally present during rehearsals. They are focused on the task at hand and helping get things accomplished. They are invested in everyone’s success – their own, their peers, and the band as a whole.

Silent leaders are often some of the most humble, friendly, and kind people you’ll ever meet. They understand that leadership is about serving others, not being served. They go out of their way to make sure everyone feels valued and appreciated, whether it’s offering a helping hand, providing words of encouragement, or simply being a listening ear. They know that a positive and supportive atmosphere is crucial to the success of the group, and they do everything they can to foster that kind of environment for others.

Silent leaders don’t just turn off their leadership qualities as soon as rehearsal is over. Their impact is felt beyond the band room, and they know that their actions can make a big difference to those around them. By setting an example and inspiring others to be their best selves, they cultivate a supportive and inclusive environment in the band. This earns them the trust and respect of their peers, who often look to them for guidance in all aspects of life. People know that silent leaders spread their positive influence beyond rehearsals, and they’re always eager to learn from them.

So, whether you hold an official title or not, there’s always an opportunity to be a silent leader. Look around and take note of those who lead by example, and strive to embody those qualities yourself. Remember, leadership isn’t about titles or positions, it’s about actions. Every member of a band is essential to the group’s success, and every one of us can make a positive impact by being a silent leader in our own way.

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Kelli Kwiatkowski

Kelli Kwiatkowski graduated from Western Michigan University in 2021 with a Bachelor of Music Education and a minor in History Education. While at WMU, she was involved in many music ensembles, including Bronco Marching Band, Symphonic Band, and Pep Band. Kelli held leadership roles in WMU’s chapter of Sigma Alpha Iota, serving as the Vice President of Membership, WMU’s chapter of the National Association for Music Education, serving as President and Secretary, and WMU Residence Life, serving as a Learning Community Assistant.

Kelli is currently employed as an Elementary Music Teacher and Beginning Band teacher in West Bloomfield School District. Kelli has been an instructor for SLA since 2021.